I do believe also that men have a hard time picking up the reins after their wives have done things for so long. My ex would just wait for me to do it, knowing that I would get fed up of asking.

Perhaps it is simplistic to say "H I will not be making the joint appointments anymore. You will need to do so. I do think the C is necessary but it is now your task to arrange."

Keep up the positive thoughts.

kat


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