thx gucci!!! Even though you are talking to mb28 this helped me. I was marching down the road of strength but found myself wavering the past two days because i saw some coming towards me from husband. You are right....there is no talking, no steps forward to notice, no listening and being a shoulder to cry on for Wayward spouse AT ALL when an affair is happening.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo