thx gucci!!! Even though you are talking to mb28 this helped me. I was marching down the road of strength but found myself wavering the past two days because i saw some coming towards me from husband. You are right....there is no talking, no steps forward to notice, no listening and being a shoulder to cry on for Wayward spouse AT ALL when an affair is happening.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo