Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

We had "the talk" on Saturday with first D9 and then
my mom later. Our D9 cried but seemed to be a bit relieved
to know that something was going on and now she knows it's that

"Dad is sad and has to work thru his sadness."

She called her two closest friends afterwards
and went to see one of them.
I had a really hard time sleeping the night before and so did H.
He and I sat up for awhile talking about what he was going to
tell her. I let him do the talking since, quite frankly he is the one that got us into this mess.
Later we told my mom who was very shocked and sad. She loves H like one of her own....
this hurts so many. He has been packing all weekend.
JG