I glanced at them and they all pretty much say the same thing, which is to be patient, work on yourself and GAL. I am doing all of those things but I wonder if from a financial perspective if it does not make sense for me to move forward and lock down any alimony that she wants. I need to consider my life post this should it turn sour. This is kinda of the big question - to wait or not to wait. Yes, I do love her and yes I feel bad for her but I need to consider my kids and my life as well. Thoughts?


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"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
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