Cutter, I called you that because you kept your dignity, composure and pride as a man while going through hell. Most of us do not even come close to that yet. You are a roll model here whether you know it or not.
And Robx is a great example of what we should have done right from the start and that is why I agree with Puppy that Robx is also a good role model. That's how it's done! Great thread for newbies like me.
Dont underestimate how many people you help with your insights and experiences.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me