Oh, one other thing that I was reminded of by reading another thread:
Do the dates he suggested really work for you? Pick the day/time that is best for your schedule, even better if it's a completely different day. You show him that you are in charge and will not just go along with his plans. But if one of the days he suggested is the best for you then pick that one. Just remember to put yourself first.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g