Anything is possible with hope and prayer. You have to detatch, which is the hardest thing to do. This doesn't mean you stop loving, you just start living for yourself. One time my ex said she hated me, dispised and regretted the day she ever met me. Now it looks like we will probably be going away for a weekend when our tax refund gets here. I am still going to go out with others, since I made the descion to make myself happy, it has given me confidence and made me realize, I'm not a bad person. I hope, and I think my ex is now seeing this.
