Ok, I'm on board with painting light oak white. smile How old is the house? Since we got our 1916 bungalow in Seattle I don't think I would ever want a new(ish) house again. The house in Anchorage was built in '84 but there aren't any old homes there so I made do. The one we have now is a 1926 colonial revival bungalow and I love it.

Back to the reason we're all here...

You were spot on with how you handled his temper tantrum. You stated your boundaries, now enforce them. Set up a filter on your work email to sen all of H's messages directly to a separate folder or to trash. When you call him keep the convo short and simple. It would be great if you can fit in in before belly dancing class so you have a reason you have to et going, plus then you'll have an activity to get your mind off the sitch if need be.

Normally I would recommend that you keep convos to email now but you seem ready to meet up with him in person. You know how to handle yourself and not let your emotions run wild. Plus you can show off how fabulous you look and how much fun you're having with GAL activities; you are a great catch for someone. Whether or not H is that lucky man is up to him.


If you love somebody, set them free.
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