Sorry I didn't reply to your post sooner! As I mentioned in an earlier post I had to have a medical procedure and I have been out of it for a week now!
Your comments were a great reminder of what I need to do. As much as I know I need to detach it has been a hard process for me. One minute he was okay and literally it feels like over night he became a different person. I have felt confused, angry, rejected and isolated because no one seems to understand.
I am now working with a counselor who is teaching me how to detach. It is a painful process but something I know I need to do.
Thanks again for sharing with me with such kindness and understanding!