... are you going to wait for that wife to get an STD and die of aids or something before you wake up and realize that wife needs your HELP and you are sitting there doing NOTHING to help her?
I agree with everything Allen said -- very well put. And if you think the above quote is being dramatic, you haven't been on this DB forum very long, or looked around very much. There are examples abound of STDs, pregnancies by the OM, family's finances being wiped out, children being traumatized, and more.
The other family is under ATTACK, as is yours. You have a moral obligation to expose the risk, so that this other woman can do what she needs to do to protect herself and her family.
