I wouldn't single out Jack because although he does give great advice he is not the only one on this board who gives good advice.
#0 Please try to keep to one thread. It makes things much less confusing
Now #1 Yes if you still consider yourself married and have not recieved a divorce I personally still do wear my ring. #2 If it is in the MBR I would. If she wants to move out thats her choice. #3 When your detaching is not working or her antics are too wild so that you can not control your self. Detaching and NC are for you not for her. #4 She could still be either one. #5Probably still is going on. Your finding out is not relevant. However you probably wont like to be with someone who is cake eating. #6 Will answer for Jack - He likes to flirt. Or at least practice flirting with people in line at grocery store. As far as your W is concerned. Db'ing suggests try something and monitor results. If there are no bad results from flirting with your W. Then why not? However if there is an OM and she is cake eating then you might want to rethink this.
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Also I am really starting to wonder if it make sense for me to stick around. I spoke with an attny who suggested that I did not have to do anything;
Listen to attny. Makes sense to me.
Oh one more thing about Jack he lives in Alaska and is usually not on this board early in morning east coast time. It is the middle of the night for him. (unless it is the summer - Then it is light all the time)
