Need some help with moving forward.

[michaelCM]

Hi talia,
Thanks for the input. You're points are all well taken, and I agree with most everything that you say. Like I stated in a previous post, I am starting to GAL, and I do think that I really need to go talk to somebody, because I am not able to get through this alone. (money is an issue, as we are still paying off the MC that we saw last year, and times are tight. But, this will be a priority for me asap.)

And, you'll pardon me if I use this space to vent. Even if my venting sounds unhealthy, I am working to be healthy.

I also appreciate your passing along ROBXs thread. Nothing like upgrading from a 2x4 to a 4x4.

I am still a little stuck on the talking to the OM's W. First of all, I don't have any reservations about what this will do to the OM; my concern is for the OM's W. But, I do understand that she deserves the truth, and if it were me, I'd want to know. Any ideas about how to approach her or about what to say? (How to do it gently? Can it be done gently?)
Do I tell my W that I'm going to do it? Does it matter?

thanks, again.