Originally Posted By: sandycay
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Time and consistent actions from FFG and from yourself will show you if there is anything to fear...doesn't sound like it so far though!


Here's the problem with that:

I had that for 15 years with STBXH. He was a good H for alll those years... no red flags, until 3 years ago.


Yeah, I'd like to say the same, but I just had selective vision... wink

OK, then, in your case...

Can you just let it be? Go forward eyes wide open, knowing it could end, but enjoying it while it lasts?

Honestly I am not sure if I could. I get awfully attached...but if everything is going well now, no need to 'borrow trouble', right?

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17