Life's not fair. It seems to dump on people who can handle it. Refer back to that horoscope, it's so true.
If you don't hear back from H before the meeting on Friday I would make the arrangements to have his crap hauled away and add the associated costs to the settlement. I know he doesn't really have much money but it's the principle, damn it!
Try to focus on how much fun you'll have once you get rid of that hunk o' junk house and move to a fun condo in the city!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g