Time and consistent actions from FFG and from yourself will show you if there is anything to fear...doesn't sound like it so far though!
Here's the problem with that:
I had that for 15 years with STBXH. He was a good H for alll those years... no red flags, until 3 years ago.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too