My MLC W appears to be a little nicer these days...but the conversation still remains focused on her new job. I contiue to wake up at the crack of dawn to make her breakfast (this is what I want to do) but I am not sure how she is interpreting this. I have begun to detach but still find myself enjoying our small chats about her job. I am focused on my kids and W now works a lot and cannot be home. D has not come up in a while directly but she appears to still be on that path (based on comments like "what is going on with us"). My questions are...
1) Should I continue to wear my weeding ring? She does not. 2) Should I continue to sleep in the same bed with her? 3) I have read on various posts that sometime one should go dark. At what point does one do this? 4) W is not spending any money, which is contrary to most MLCers' so could she just be WAS? 5) I am not sure if the EA w OM is still ongoing - should I try and find out? 6) Should I flirt at all? I have the past few days and it at least gets me a smile but I am not sure if that is what I should be doing.
Also I am really starting to wonder if it make sense for me to stick around. I spoke with an attny who suggested that I did not have to do anything; however, if I felt D was immenent that I should file, which I do not want to but more and more it looks like D is immenent. Help
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
