TTA, I'm proud of you - this is a very tough time. You can do this. Its a good sign that he's so conflicted, but you can't help him with that. The really crappy thing about all this, is that he has to sort through those feelings for himself. Be wonderful, supportive, and loving when he reaches out - but don't reach out to him. Just focus on you and get yourself in order. I hope you see that you have alot of your own emotions to sort through - we all do - and you need to give yourself that time. The best thing you can do to help H is to take care of you.
What is your plan for self care this week??
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