Quote: But I worry that my h won't like who I am, this new me!
This was my biggest fear also. And that was BEFORE any of this stuff happened! I was afraid if I changed H wouldn't like ME so I let H say what he wanted to me, not cause to much of a fuss about things he was doing, that he'd be happy. Well you know what it didn't matter, H wasn't happy. I was a doormat, let him walk all over me and treat me like crap for nothing, he left anyway. H even commented that maybe I should have spoke up more..
Now I'm changing for ME and I like MYSELF and if H doesn't like me the way I am, than that's too bad for H. It is now more important to like myself, to respect myself and to make H respect me also. I'm working on this, it's hard battle for me as I still have problems standing up for myself. But I AM working on it. I shall do this, it is very important to me now.
I like myself so much more now and have a new confidence about me that I wouldn't trade for anything, well mabye my H, if he can't accept the new me.
So if your H doesn't like this new you, than that's H's problem. Keep the faith, girl. You can do this.
