Have you thought of a good comeback yet to put her in her place? How insensitive!
I have to admit my dad has done similar stuff to me and I finally found my voice and told him how much it hurt. It didn't stop it completely but it helped.
I would have ran away from all of this if I had the chance. Gone somewhere new and started over. Not easy to do with 4 kids. I hope you can go because you are at a place where you want to explore and not just to "get away" from the hurt. Can't wait to hear about your trip.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory