OK, so this might be a question for DQ. I spent many years on stage 2. And I finally wised up and filed for D (for the second time) last week. We have a long history of domestic violence. I have left our home and started over in a new apartment. We're Catholic, so that's kind of a big deal (divorcing, that is). STBX Hus is a strong willed Italian. Since turning 40, I've had sex with my STBX exactly once. I find him repulsive, thus the D. Meanwhile, Goldey has gotten some therapy, and is getting antsy. Actually, really antsy. I think I went from LD to HD in about 3 months. I feel like a 16 yo boy in a 41 yo woman's body. Some might say desperate. Trusty toys just aren't cutting it. Technically still married, although emotionally De-Married for quite some time (I figure going on about 4 years) and the paperwork is just a formality. Thank God, there are no third parties involved, although I do enjoy flirting when there are good boundaries. [deleted something I didn't mean to share], and it freaked me out. Won't be doing that again. I certainly don't want to be a homewrecker. Advice? I'm a bit bashful/private about sex, be gentle. When the booze shows up, I can get a bit rowdy, so I'm off the juice right now.
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Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
I certainly don't want to be a homewrecker.