Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
oh, and again, Love is NOT a feeling. it is a choice. feelings come and go. sometimes you will hate your spouse, sometimes you will "love" him, sometimes you will not care, or you will care deeply. they are all feelings. but real love is an action.

it doesn't matter if your H loves you. He doesn't even love himself right now, and I would venture to say, neither do you.

(speaking in general...) and if you can't love yourself, than how can someone else love you?


I so agree with you! He doesn't love himself right now...and I can't expect for him to love me either. I've been praying constantly for him. He needs an awakening.


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10