OK- my comp has a virus so I was unable to post. W has been out of the house since Thurs last week. NC has been pretty good- the terms are only for banking, taxes, moving, dogs, or lawyer. Sat- let W know I was away if she wanted to visit the dogs. Sun- asked that W come over to go through our things to see who wants what. W-is the computer back? Me-if you cant respect me to address my statements or questions, then I will have to return in kind W-Jeez, drop it already...we can do that during the move Me-that will slow the process I'd like for the move to be as quick as possible W-dont worry it will be quick Me- I'm not trying to be rude- we both need to move on w/ our lives W-I know Me- so we agree, let me know if you're able to come today W- prob not today, will let you know Me- Since I wont see u dad asked that you call him W- grerat now Im stressed, why cant I talk to you about it? Me- it does not concern me, it is your business affair
I thought this was pretty good.
This AM I awoke to: W-how does it make you feel that you never provided for me? Your parents do everything for you. W-I feel like I'm divorcing your dad, I feel like I should be going over the financial issues w/ you. W-no need to reply, I'm just venting, I am so pissed.
My replies: Me- I'm sorry you feel that way, it must be hard having those feelings. Me- I dont appreciate you using words like never, you know that isn't the case. I did what I had to to get a better job wehen we needed more income. Me- You are divorcing all of us, the business affairs are between you and dad- it does not concern me. Me- this is what you want, I will not facilitate it in any way, but I will be understanding and supportive
Not sure if the last one was necessary. I know I need to show her I'm detached and ready to move on. Looking for any input on the matter.
The weekend was good, I felt a bit emotional Sat, but spoke w/ family, and now seem to feel pretty good about things- it's much easier w/o AW in the house.
