I know for a fact my W will never come back. It took me a long time to get into DB'ing as I was so strung out I was not listening to the advice I was given.
The problem is you cannot compete with another man/woman, and the only thing you can do is concerntrate on you and your children and hope your WAS comes to their senses or the affair fizzles out. The other issue for me is would I want someone back who has deceived me and been with somebody else. The dynamics of the relationship would never be the same again.
I still love my W but I want somebody who loves me and is willing to discuss issues as they arise. Basically, we are all here to try to rebuild our lives and get the great support and advice to move on. I love to read the success stories and wish this was me, but as has already been said, I can sleep at night knowing I tried to do everything to try and restore our M but she had already gone.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
