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because at first, after we had sex..he did withdraw

Yes, my H did too, it felt catastrophic at first, I cried for two days. I need to not go anywhere close to an R talk... it is a cheeseless tunnel and I always feel lousy. I can't stand hearing "I don't know what I want..."

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.