Rocked - good to hear from you again, thanks for the words of encouragement. I think I'm finally figuring out that she's been cake eating too long and I've reached my breaking point on being stepped on. I have a hard time not doing nice things and helping out around the house, so I had to figure out something else to be assertive and set boundaries and I think that means some verbal confrontation. Not giving in on things like this. And then it is also encouraging to see the W back down after getting over the initial anger...
I'm tired of the way things have been going, it is draining, so if doing this right will create the crisis, ok, lets bring on the crisis and work through this. Lets not wait around, our sitch is unique and we have so many obligations where we have to put on the happy couple face, that I won't be able to do the textbook DB. Next weekend we have social functions Fri and Sat night! For the kids, thanks for the reminder, they are still my inspiration!
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M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
