Just finished reading the 5 love languages. Good book, quick read, should have read it years ago. Most interesting thing that seems to directly conflict with DB is the part on even if your spouse is involved with someone else, continue trying to fill the love tanks. For my W, I would think her primary is touch and secondary words of affirmation. Those are 2 things DB techniques say don't do right now because they will push her further away. Thoughts on all this?


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11