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[gutwrenching]

Lotus - could be, had the same thoughts. OM2-- not likely, would have to be someone from the past or someone met on the internet...not someone met local. Very well could have had something planned for contact with OM or if I want to be an optimist I could go back to your earlier post and maybe OM is cooling and thus the funk. Don't know but am finally reaching the point where I only worry about what I can control. I decided that I wasn't going to be treated like that for no reason - so I brought it up again and told her she needed to tell me why she so mad, she said she didn't know, so then I told her that I wasn't going to be treated that way just because she was in a bad mood. About 30 minutes or so later, I noticed a concerted effort on her part to be friendlier--she was still mad, I could tell, but she was fighting it. And then after another 45 minutes or so, she actually started being genuinely friendlier. She is civil now, reading a book and shockingly not on the computer.