[quote=june72] Let her handle it. Why do you need to get involved with her job application? She is a grown woman. This could be perceived as overbearing and manipulative.
Oh - I agree. She insisted I do it, but then complained that she doesn't know what I did. Self-esteem....
oh boy, that makes it hard, though.
Please remember improving a marriage is a lot of uphill and downhill events. A lot of backsliding. It is not one forward upward event. My hubby and I have many, many bumps in the road. Many times each of us thought the incidents were fatal to our marriage. We made it though- so can you. She does love you.
Last edited by june72; 02/01/1005:29 AM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
