OK, onthemountaintop, so it seems you are trying. I like what I am reading. I still think you are way, way, way too pessimistic. From what you are saying she does seem unhappy. I mention often on this board about meetup.com. I personally love the mom's groups. It made me a lot happier. Would she consider joining one? She could host playdates at your house or go to other mom's houses. It would be nice for her to socialize. How about dates? Are you guys ever doing those? That may perk her up a bit.

Can type more I am tired and need to get up early. I hope others can comment. I posted on a busy thread that you were in need of some guidance so hopefully others will be posting, I am hoping.

I think D is a big mistake but you are free to make your own decisions.

Will read up on you tomorrow

Best
June72

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)