SP, I love your thread. You certainly have a cult following. smile Lots of insight, lots of humor. I love the "embrace the suck"- a term I use myself at times now.

I hate to be rude and hijack but I know there are some heavy hitters here and there is a certain poster who could really use some guidance

onthemountaintop is wanting to improve his marriage to his wife and five kids and just has threatened his wife with a D, again. He seems a tad controlling. I think he needs some men to help guide him on how to improve his marriage rather than throw it all away. He seems to be blaming her for everything- she seems quite distraught.

Thanks!

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)