Puppy & Allen,
Thank you so much for all your help. Meeting went well, mostly let him do all the talking. He told me that he just didn’t see how we could get past our problems and be happy again. I did tell him that I would like to work on the M, but that as long as OW was in the picture; there was NO chance of R. He informed me that if we decided to work on M, that he would cut all contact with her.

I’m hoping that exposing A to OWH tomorrow will help speed this no contact along.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10