During My Seperation -
- Let her know I wanted her but didn't need her.
- Be a Friend
- Don't Monitor, spy, bug, nag, etc..
- Don't be at every beckon Call - support but from distance.
- Took extra good care of myself and was very visible.
- Attended Church - took kids.
- Try to become better Daddy

I know some of it doesn't apply to your sitch but thats a condensed version of what I wrote down.

Which i would suggest to you - write it down!

M43
W43
D11
S7
M18
T20
WAW is back & trying (no she was lying)
Close to callin' it busted but.... watching
Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.

Sometimes GOODBYE is a Second Chance.