oh, and again, Love is NOT a feeling. it is a choice. feelings come and go. sometimes you will hate your spouse, sometimes you will "love" him, sometimes you will not care, or you will care deeply. they are all feelings. but real love is an action.
it doesn't matter if your H loves you. He doesn't even love himself right now, and I would venture to say, neither do you.
(speaking in general...) and if you can't love yourself, than how can someone else love you?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
