I've changed my mind so many darn times throughout this ordeal that I even confuse myself. You are right in that if a D is what ends up happening....it isn't going to happen for quite a while. Who knows, maybe I will have ANOTHER change of heart. I'm not thinking that will happen, but the Lord works in mysterious ways!
I also completely understand your point about the 'pushover'. My family/friends already think that about me. AND they don't know anything about her being pregnant.