Well one thing I wouldnt say is that I had my phone turned off. one reason is that you can tell when someone has received a message and she'd know I was lying.

the other and biggest reason is that having her phone turned off is what prompted me to go over to her house Friday and what messed things up for me.

And as for why I care...I dunno...it seems that when she gets mad at me, that pushes us further from reconciliation. I hate to keep bringing up Friday...but she got really mad at me then and it ruined everything.

Until I see some positive signs in our situation again I will now think of that day as being as bad if not worse that the day the ILYBINILWY bomb was dropped.


So...what should I tell her then when she comes over? I was busy? I will heed your advice...but I'm trying to think of what I could possibly have been so busy doing that I couldnt have responded with a simple yes or no.


Me - 32
EX - 26
D - 3

BOMB: 11/02/09
EA/PA confirmed 1/29/10

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