Luvless - Thank you for the reply. I am continuing to do the work for me. (Spiritually, Emotionally, Physically - Down 35 lbs. in 2 months and feeling amazing) Basically, I feel like she just tries to keep me guessing.
Puppy - I still haven't confronted on OM as per recommendations. She doesn't even know I know. My current evidence is the following:
- name and address - 1400 text messages per month (up from 300) - 2 - 1 hour phone calls at 2:30AM and 3:30AM while I was away. - short calls during lunch and after work to same number - locking of cell phone - leaving one week after calls started - changing attitude towards cheating colleagues (justifying them) - numerous other typical signs.
I am having a problem collecting much more info. Do I need more?
I have been seriously GAL'ing, Working on My Issues, Completely Detaching (I have not texted or called, I only respond to emails usually after a couple of days.).
Let me know your thoughts on how to proceed. At least it seems I am not pushing her away anymore.
I sent her some aggressive clauses in the separation agreement. Not being mean but just making things a little more real for her. I told her the agreement was not what I prefer but as she wishes my comments were attached. In the meeting, she told me she was so upset when she got the email. She doesn't want this at all.
Who knows. Obviously, I continue to be completely clueless.
