And one more point...please take note that while Leno may joke about how the wife has headaches...he will NOT joke that it is "ok for dad to have a mistress or use a jack shack". Right? So yes while your kids may learn from the world that it is sometimes normal for a woman to have a lower sex drive than a man, they will NOT CONDONE or believe that you had any right to cheat on their mother because of this. Why can't you make that connection?

DQ