So, we finished up dinner eventually. STBX in-laws went from the restaurant to their hotel, and STBXW, kids and I drove home. Not a word b/w W and I on the drive. I did speak to kids.
STBXW went straight to bed, while I stayed up with the kids for about an hour to watch TV, and just cuddle with D6. I LOVE that...Yesterday, I processed a lot of anger, resentment towards W. I did not allow that to control me, and I am managing that well. But, I have NO desire to speak to STBXW about anything.
Well, someone had to be the adult in that restaurant/party of six scene. That job fell rightly to you and you handled it admirably.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I am strong, but this has been a tough week guys. I feel pretty strongly about not talking to STBXW. That may not be the most mature thing, but I find it impossible to have a "friend"ly discussion with the woman who so seemingly with ease and not a thought is so determined to tear apart our family. Little bit of a vent there, but that's how I'm feeling. And that's where the anger is coming from.
Who could blame you?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
