feel like giving up - talk to me!

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(((luv)))

I have been absent... away... sorry for the distance.

Been reading up on your thread and I am sooooo sorry that you are where you are at today. I will pray for you and your family.

ST is right though. It is tough but tough love is where it is at now. I, too, did not completely understand and fought it... you know the DB'ing thing. Just did not seem to be right in my book even though it was what I knew I had to do. I did not want to push W further into the unknown as well as myself.

I did evenually start doing the things I was told here... I practiced them and lived them. I did as ST is telling you, to step out on faith and do what they themselves have done. Faith because results may vary..... But, at this point from what I have read, what have you got to loose.

That is where I was at. What have I got to loose.

My result.... W is pursuing. I am still running.

I do not want to steal your thread so I will save my junk for another time...

You are right about one thing though... you do not (if it comes to it) have to leave your M believing it was miserable.
Coach says happiness is an inside job and if H does not feel happy, it is his own damm fault.

Know that you are beautiful... you have value... and worth. You are a wonderful amazing woman and a great mother. And least I say a wonderful heart and good W. Your H is an ass for not noticing or acknowledging the effort you are and have aready put in to try to save the M.

Often times, I've wondered why this site has not turned into a potential dating or match making site.

This place has the best souls I have had the previledge to encounter or read about right here. We are the folks that deserve the kinda of people that are here in our lives. We could make each other happy if in a different place or time...

But you Luv are in my book, the difinition of the word. I love your heart. Keep fighting for your position. It is one God Himself has given to you. I pray for you daily and will tonight before I rest.

I can only say that I too am uncertain of my future.... but whoever it holds for me.... I pray she has your HEART!

I love you Luv... May God forever pour His blessings upon you