EXACTLY...right there with you...Everyone is telling me the same thing including the people in her family...In my case I've actually had two separate people in the last few days ask me if I thought my wife may be bipolar...this is a good group of people to get support from, I'll say that... [quote=luvless] In short, I have come to realize that the majority of the reason my W sees D as the only option is she is unhappy with her life. She thinks I am the reason she is unhappy, but she's wrong. And only time and seperation from me will show her that. It's sad that my family will be torn apart for her to learn this lesson, IF she ever does. But, I have the peace of knowing that, unlike my W, I did everything I could to save our M and family. If my best wasn't good enough, then the problem wan't ME. It's HER.
