on the MIL, that was HER wedding, most likely she didn't know half of what was going on between exH and you, she just wants to be shown as a part of baby's life, and she probably knows she won't get much of that from her Son-in-law. But I agree, why should she even suggest that anyways? many people are clueless.
Oh MIL knows exactly what was happening during her wedding. She knew he was sneaking alcohol and leaving baby in the dust to flirt with women. I get she wants to be a part of babys life when she feels like it. She says she doesn't like exh's behavior, but he is her son and she will always support him. About then is when I pretty much wrote her off.
Today turned out to be decent. My d20 and her boyfriend came to town and we ended up hanging out and her boyfriend, my son,and his friend did some yardwork for me too which was awesome. That alone made me feel better.
Havent' heard a peep from exh since last nights father of the year kiss text!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
