Well this is all backwards! I'm the one that filed but now I'm trying to save this m. He's not changed much at all towards me but has toward our children when they visit him. The kids though say he's still as selfish as ever and do not want him home.

So what should I do? Maintain my distance? Only have contact when he calls? He's very insecure and says he can't trust me so how do I get in there with h?

Oh, my Elwood, he just called to ask me out!!!! But I made plans already for Friday that he said were too late for him...he has to work at 5am Saturday so he says why don't you come over Sunday when I come get the boys? Oh my gawd!!!! I can't believe it!!!! I'm BACK IN!!!

Cindy