In short, I have come to realize that the majority of the reason my W sees D as the only option is she is unhappy with her life. She thinks I am the reason she is unhappy, but she's wrong. And only time and seperation from me will show her that. It's sad that my family will be torn apart for her to learn this lesson, IF she ever does. But, I have the peace of knowing that, unlike my W, I did everything I could to save our M and family. If my best wasn't good enough, then the problem wan't ME. It's HER.
I'm hoping my H doesn't have to break up our family to learn this lesson too. It seems as though that's what's going to happen.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10