I don't think you should do that unless it is the right choice for you, financially and emotionally. I'm sure wherever you choose to live will be a nice place for your boys, and your W should have no input or pressure on you to do something that may not be in your best interest.
It may be the right thing for me, I'm just not sure yet.
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I think this is horrible. I don't think it's at all fair for your W to be considering this woman a good friend, when by her actions it is clear that she isn't. I think your W should know the truth, don't you think that is clearly wrong?
I do think it's wrong, yeah. I've thought about telling her; it would be a big thing, though, and she's been overwhelmed and kind of fragile for so long. No, I don't think it's fair to her. I think it's a little sick.
This happened once I resolved there was no looking back, W had slept with OM, I was done and moving on with my life, and the D was certain. It started as friends supporting each other (she's struggling as a single mom). This is why I'm anti-dating at this point - it's clear to me that my judgment was not good. Self-absorbed and reckless.
Thanks Karen for reading all of that and giving me your honest feedback.
