Quote: Confuse him by not going back to any old habits that may have made him feel that way.
Yes, I'm looking for ways NOT to do what I did before!!! LIke you I want to NOT repeat previous behavior that put us in the old circular pattern. I guess not giving into how I would normally react to my insecurities would be a start (calling him to talk about r, wanting reassurances, etc.).
Quote: Remember he is alien like my ex. He will find any excuse to say you are the one causing the problems
That is SO what he does!!! This last time though he said he was sorry for hurting me and did admit to how he felt (not trusting me, loved me, angry)...more concrete than the 'I don't knows' I've always gotten before!!! Big change there.
