K, I'm meeting my H for coffee at 5. Not sure what to say, I think I will let him do most of the talking. Is it ok for me to say to him "I'm really uncomfortable about you and this OW's friendship"? Or should I not say anything like that until or if he tells me he wants to work on the M?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10