Don't feel bad. I was the one in my marriage that was angry and uninvoled. Now I am trying to rebuild trust with my ex. It is a long row to hoe. Enjoy what time you have together and build from that. Remember he is alien like my ex. He will find any excuse to say you are the one causing the problems. Confuse him by not going back to any old habits that may have made him feel that way. My ex has said that everytime I start makeing any headway toward changeing I will mess up every two weeks. I am showing her now that she is wrong. This I hope will confuse the alien within.
