What I mean by the kids withme is that I am constantly doing things with all 3. I do things in groups but I like doing quality 1 to 1 time. So my only down time without them is when I read in my room or if I go out as an adult by myself. I would never consider having them near me just as a device.
When I get kid time, they're all mine.
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09