GAL on friday night was interrupted with a "don't come home to late, we need to talk"
i didn't hurry home, but i had stuff to do the next morning so i came home at a reasonable hour.
I reestablished the boundary conversation with her confirming that she will not leave her house. back and forth. finally i said you are bring OM into our home that is extremely disrespectful. she says how, and i, from memory describe a day when she was home with our kids working on school projects and there are multiple texts and one 40 min phone call with him.
she insists this is not the case and starts to get pissed and trying to pull up the account on her laptop. i stand up from a chair to see on her laptop. at that time she yells at me to sit down. I do the calm down i'm just looking at your computer screen. a couple more yells at me then she runs down to hall to boot my computer. i sit down in the chair in her room and wait for her to return, because i have locked my computer and she does not have the password.
more yelling and she stomps back into her room and screams at me to leave. i'm sitting the the chair and she is across the room. she yells it a couple more times while stomping on the floor. i'm waiting on her to stop so i can say my confident "we'll talk about this later, and i'll leave now" when she picks up her phone and with incredible accuracy hits me square in the face. 7 stitches on the lip and 5 more on the eyebrow.
at that point she turns into a emotional wreck. begging and pleading. she gets ice and other supplies to take care of me.
right now she is a emotional drone. not sure what to do. i feel that if i GAL her and keep up the 180s that she might need more professional help then she is getting. she is about the saddest i've ever seen.
no conversations with the kids yet, but she slept in her room last night and i'm sure tonight as well.
any help?
M=37 W=40 Married=10,T=12 D=10 D=8 WAW Bomb=1/12 EA confirmed=1/13 EA exposed=1/27 Current In house separation
