It has made me realize that I still get very upset by him.
However, I almost typed "he can still upset me." And I realized that I need to continue to work on myself so I am not upset too easily. I think that the limited contact w/X has been a good thing for me, maybe for both of us....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D